Why Can’t I Make Decisons?!?

It may seem like everyone around you is an expert at making decisions.

Small decisions like what restaurant you should eat at for dinner. Or even big decisions; like where and if you should move for a job opportunity.

Making decisions is part of life. Making a decision can change the course of your life.

Why can’t I make decisions?

Depending on your temperament making decisions could be really easy and energizing, or very draining and stressful. For some temperaments, the thought of making the wrong decision creates immense anxiety. This also means a small decision like where or what you are going to be eating.

What do I do if I can’t make decisions?

Some temperaments need help carrying the load of decision making. They need someone that can help make the decisions they cannot, but, will also include them in making those decisions. This is very important. It is important to be included but not have to make the decision on their own.

What if there is no one in my life that can help me?

It may not be easy to find someone who is willing to help make decisions. Depending on their temperament they may not be able to help you in the ways you need them to. If that is the case you can always rely on the Holy Spirit to help you make decisions. Pray for what you need and wait for HIS answer. He will never lead you wrong. Regardless if you have someone in your life that can help or not you should still always ask for the guidance of the Holy Spirit. It will help give you the security that you need. Because in Him, there is only TRUTH.

If you have been struggling with making decisions throughout your life and you don’t know why contact us. We can tell you more about your temperament and we can help guide you.