Holidays often trigger depression, loneliness, and suicidal thoughts Holidays are not always “the most wonderful time of the year.” For many people they are a reminder of losses, loved ones who are not here for the holiday. A lot of people are also alone and every Christmas commercial reminds them that they have nobody to […]
Valentines day is when we celebrate LOVE! We don’t just celebrate romantic love, but love for our friends, family, and children. Without understand temperament in the affection area, we can cause those around us pain. Real love misses out on a vital connection if we do not understand the needs of others and if they […]
Recently we talked about the fears that go along with having come from a broken family as a child. You may feel like it is impossible for you to ever have a healthy and fulfilling marriage. Maybe all the trust and stability you had as a child simply vanished with the breakup of your family. […]
My child and I have a really good relationship, why do I need to understand his temperament? Even if you and your child have a good relationship, it can still be helpful to know their temperament. Some time down the road your relationship may change and you may feel like you do not really understand […]
My son started taking a tumbling class. He was the only boy in the class. Compared to the girls, he looked out of control. It does make me laugh a little bit. He was definitely more “spirited” than the girls. The issue we faced was obedience. At home, when I gave him instructions, he was usually […]
It is now mid-January and you have probably made a New Years Resolution. Your drive for this resolution may be starting to dwindle down; or you may have given up completely. Sometimes it is hard to remember that resolutions are usually things that have been hard for you to achieve. So, you have waited for […]
Which brings me to my fourth point… unforgiveness can steal blessings away. If you do not have a heart that is ready to receive all that God has in store for you, you will not recognize when he is blessing you. Unforgiveness breeds anger, hostility, revenge, pain, and resentment. How can you see any good […]
Last week I talked about what I have learned these last few years about forgiveness. I talked about why it is important to not only ask the person for forgiveness but to also repent to God. Next, not forgiving someone only hurts you and your relationships. Ephesians 4:31-32 (AMP) says, “Let all bitterness and wrath and […]