When you think of pre-marital counseling you may think of it being just for people who are engaged and about it get married.
You are not wrong. But pre-marital counseling can also be very beneficial to couples who are dating. And also those who are thinking about taking that next step.
Knowing your temperament and your partner’s can be very beneficial.
How could knowing my temperament and my partners really make a difference?
There is something that is very unique about temperament counseling. It will teach you things about, not only yourself, but also your partner.
For example: You may have thought that you told your partner how you felt about a situation. But to them you never told them. You did not explain it to them in a way that fits there temperament. So, your partner may have never known you felt that way.
Temperament counseling helps you not only communicate better with one another but also teaches you HOW to communicate effectively for your benefit and your partners benefit. You will also learn things about your partner that most people do not know in 10 years of marriage.
My partner and I don’t have any major issues so we do not need pre-marital counseling….right?
There may be hurdles in your future with your partner. Knowing each others temperament may help prevent some of those things from happening. It will also help guide you through those times more smoothly.
Whether that be because of miscommunication or outside sources. You will understand why your partners reacts the way they do and they will understand why you react the way you do. You will learn how to be each others support in the way THEY need you to be.
If you and your partner are in need of pre-marital counseling and want to learn to understand and speak to each other more effectively contact us. We can help.