The Struggles of a Teenager- Peer Pressure

Peer pressure is something that every generation has dealt with. Over time some of these pressures have changed and some have stayed the same.

Undergoing daily peer pressure can take a toll on a teen. It can effect their self worth and their ability to function normally. Rejection is also something they deal with when it come to peer pressure. Acceptance is very important to anyone; especially a teen who is still trying to figure out who they are and where they fit in.

Peer pressure is not always negative.

Usually when you think of peer pressure you think of only the negative pressures; but there are some positive pressures. If your child has a good and encouraging group of friends that pushes them to do their best, then peer pressure isn’t necessarily always a negative thing.

For example, your teen is involved with their church group and the other teens in that group help them strengthen their relationship with God. Not only by example, but also with their actions and influence. In this situation a good group of peers can influence your child in a postive way.

What can I do to help my teen stand up to peer pressure?

It starts when they are young and building self worth. If your child has a strong sense of self worth then it will be easier for them to say no to the things they know are wrong.

Also, it is important that you teach them to establish values. Not only value in themselves but also in their future. Teens have difficulty seeing ahead into the future. They struggles with completely understanding the consequences of their actions and being able to see how it could effect them in the future.

Teach your children who they are in Christ. If they are secure with who they are in him, they will be less likely to get sucked into the things of this world.

If your teen is struggling with peer pressure and building up their self worth, contact us. We can help.