Why Can’t I Find Someone

You may be single and asking yourself, “Why can’t I find someone?”.

It may seem that everyone around you is in a relationship or getting married. And you are struggling to find someone who is even “dateable”.

You may be in the stage of your life where you are ready to settle down and share your life with someone but not able to find someone with the same plans.

Or, you may be struggling with your confidence and self-esteem and need help building up your self-image.

Is there something wrong with me?

Understanding and knowing who you are is very important. Not just who you are as a person, but who you are in Christ. Because, who you are as a person is who God created you to be.

So, without that understanding, it will be very difficult to find fulfillment in other relationships (including romantic). Building a strong foundation and a deep relationship with God will help prepare you for what he has planned for you. That also includes future relationships. It will also help you to hear him more clearly when he is guiding you.

If you are unsure of your value to God, it will be impossible to feel valued by another human. When you have built a strong relationship with God, he can help guide you in all parts of your life and relationships.

Get to know yourself better.

You may think that you know yourself better than anyone. But the truth is, a lot of us do not truly understand why we do what we do. It would be beneficial for you to find out your temperament and speak to a temperament counselor to help you understand yourself better.

If you are asking yourself, “Why can’t I find someone?”, and are struggling to find understanding contact us. We can help.