TVHP: How I Discipline With Love

So how do I discipline my son?

Ok, so how do I discipline a child without saying naughty.

I follow the same guidelines every time.

He first goes to time out for 3 minutes (I set a timer).

Then, after timeout is over, I kneel down to his eye level and I explain to him that the actions that he chose(hitting, throwing, etc.) was not ok.

I also explain it is ok to get angry but it is not ok to hit, throw, etc. And if he is angry and feels like doing those things, then walk away to a different area (I have actually had to practice this with him so that when he is in the situation he already knows what to do).

I always make sure he knows that I love him and that he is a good boy.

Also, everyday, multiple times usually, I tell him all the things that I love about him. I especially do it after time out.

Why do I do it after time out?

So, I have really thought about this and the Lord showed me something.

He always corrects me in the most loving way. He calls me his child. He never has used a negative word to describe me even when I have messed up in the biggest ways. Those are actually the times his voice is even sweeter.

He directs me with love. Not with fear or threats or hurtful names.

When I have messed up and have come to him hurt, embarrassed, rejected, and even angry he showers me with his love. He reminds me that he loves me and forgives me for the mistakes I have made. He tells me that I am perfect in his eyes.

I want to approach my son the same way the Lord approaches me. With a gentle heart. I want to teach and guide in love. I still mess up sometimes but the Lord gentle corrects me and forgives me.

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