Rejection and past rejection is something that effects almost all of our lives and can be carried throughout your life. It can cause tremendous stress and anxiety, and can take control over the way you act/react in situations. Someone hurt me and I can’t let go. Forgiveness is extremely important in order to heal from rejection. […]
Most people have taken up habits that are not good for them. For some, that might mean smoking, overeating, or swearing. Some bad habits might not mean it is necessarily hurting your body but bad habits do have a sense of controlling you. For example: You may be a nail biter. Biting your nails does […]
I can’t say no to people…I try but every time I feel guilty and say yes even though I want to say no…Why? Some temperaments struggle with creating boundaries and saying no to people. They fear that if they say no to someone then they may be rejected. So instead, they agree to do more than […]
I shut down when I feel like no ones listening to me…why? For each temperament this could be different. Depending on your temperament, you may be shutting down because you do not have the energy to deal with the rejection that can come along with not feeling heard. Or, you may feel that you would […]
I feel like no one hears me! Are they even trying to listen? Don’t they care? Is there something wrong with ME? For some people, depending on their temperament, this applies to everyone in their day to day life. To others, this may apply only to the people they value most such as close friends and […]
Past rejections that have never been healed can harm your present and past relationships. Not just romantic relationships but also relationships with family and friends. Almost everyone has a need to be accepted and a fear of rejection but there are some temperaments that have a greater fear of rejection. They also would have deeper […]
Change is a normal part of life. Through out your life you have probably also changed. Those changes have come through life experiences whether they be good or bad experiences. Marriage is one of the parts of life where you make changes. They may be changing location, living situations, or simply finding a balance sharing […]
Sign up for Ashley’s latest posts e-mailed to you SPAM FREE It may be easy for someone on the outside to assume that once a child is adopted the rest of their life will be easy. They have a new family and people who love and care about them and they should be happy. […]