Sharing what really matters in a marriage
When 2 people share “deep tender feelings,” it tends to change the landscape of a marriage or relationship. I realize that it’s not easy to “trust” a person with feelings and emotions that could make you look weak or helpless, and with certain temperaments this can seem impossible. A Melancholy will find it very difficult to tell his wife something like “you are so beautiful and good to me I can’t understand why you are still with me when I give you practically nothing”. This is due to their low self esteem and fear of rejection.
It takes trust in God and one’s mate as well as understanding to show weaknesses and fear to a mate, but the result is a husband/wife that knows that you are trusting them with your deepest tender feelings and and it will build a marriage foundation that is built on a rock.
I know that you may have a marriage that makes this difficult or not prudent right now…Dr W H Penewit and his wife Rev Linda Penewit can help trust return to your marriage. Contact us for help