My Spouse Won’t Come To Counseling

For some people marriage counseling or couples counseling can seem like a scary thing.

You and your spouse may be struggling in you relationship and you may need counseling but your spouse refuses to go.

At this point you may be feeling like there are little to no other options for you.

You may be feeling desperate to save your marriage.

We need counseling but my spouse will not come.

This is very common. Some people are not comfortable talking to someone they do not know about issues they may be having. A lot of couples struggle with this and one may be left feeling like there is no longer a solution. This can lead to feeling angry and/or as though you are being rejected.

If your spouse does not want to participate in counseling at the time, you can still come in for counseling. Your relationship is struggling and we can still help you with anything that you personally may be struggling with.

How can counseling just one of us help our relationship?

There may have been pains from your past that have not been dealt with. This could be part of the reason you are struggling in your marriage. Undealt with past pains, anger, anxiety, and relationships all effect a marriage and the relationship you have with your spouse.

We, as counselors, can help you deal with the pains of the past and find healing. We can also still help you and counsel you in your marriage regardless of whether your spouse is there. And we can help you identify the things that you can do to contribute in healing your marriage.

If you are struggling in your relationship and you have a spouse that does not want to participate in counseling. We can still help you. Contact us