Last week we talked about the fears that go along with having come from a broken family as a child.
You may feel like it is impossible for you to ever have a healthy and fulfilling marriage someday.
That all the trust and stability you had as a child simply vanished with the break up of your family.
You know that you never want this for yourself or your future children.
So you have been hiding behind relationships you know will not last.
How do I learn to have a healthy relationship and someday marriage?
First getting yourself help and healing is very important. Loss of trust and stability is a fear a lot of people have coming from a broken family. Healing from that pain is very important. Learning how to deal with the emotions and the loss you may have felt as a child is also very important. That healing and understanding will help you later down the road with your relationships.
Second, if you think you have found someone in your life that you want to marry, pre-marriage counseling would benefit you. Not just pre-marital but temperament pre-marital counseling.
How is pre-martial temperament counseling different from regular pre-marital counseling….and how could that help us?
Temperament is who God created you to be in your mother womb(to read more about the 5 Temperaments and what temperament is check it out here ). It determines how you make decisions and how you act/react in situations. Also how you are in social situations and how you show and receive love.
These are all the things that help make you who you are and who your partner is. You would know much more about the person you are going to marry than most married couples ever know or understand about each other.
If you need help healing from a broken family or need help with your relationship, contact us.